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One thing that has not changed through history is that women (in general) do whatever needs to be done for their families.
I will answer this first since it relects a stereotypical gender role that I don't think is based in fact.
I would say that throughout history
parents do whatever needs to be done for their families. Women do not have a monopoly on commitment to their offspring. This is just as true in cultures with well defined gender roles.
My grandfather worked very hard to provide for his family. He worked two jobs and still took time to look after his children. I am not taking away from the work done by my grandmother who had the traditional role taking care of the house and the children. But, the work done by my grandfather was just as demanding and his commitment to his family was just as great.
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It disturbs me to think that there are still children who are being raised to think there are defined male and female roles...
I don't believe that gender roles are necessarily a bad thing. They are part of a culture, and in some cultures, are completely appropriate and even beneficial.
Much of the views of our own past alluded to in this thread are mythology. At no time in our history were women expected to be "barefoot and pregnant". The roles of women have certainly changed in a way that for our culture are completely appropriate. But I doubt if the women of our history would agree with the assessment of their lives that many modern women have.
Finally, it seems to me that gender roles are natural in any society. There are without doubt real differences between men and women, and any culture adjusts to reflect that. Initially, due to the needs of courtship and procreation men and woman had no choice to to accept different roles, but these roles became ingrained in our culture and even our biology.
I live in Cambridge Massachuesetts, the very heart of liberal America. Even here, in spite of the fact that most of us would vehemently deny it, couples tend to resort to traditional gender roles-- women being more interested in the upkeep and decoration of the house, and men taking a more functional approach.
Our culture now has blended the roles a bit in an attempt to erase them, I am am glad for that for the most part, although I think it does make social relationships a bit more difficult. But it is an error to judge other cultures and other times based on our new ideas. Our new ideas are not any sort of truth, they are just different prejudices than we had in the past.
Even though the song asks "why can't a woman be more like a man". The fact is the difference is probably a good thing. It is certainly part of our nature.
[edit: took a phrase containing the word "irks" from the first sentence since on re-reading implied a sentiment stronger than I intended.]