@Lordyaswas,
Lordyaswas wrote:
I can understand its use sometimes, like when one asks a question or is summarising, but everyday in every way usage drives me mad.
I've read of other people here driven to distraction by people starting sentences with "so"
I will gladly admit I do it all the time, and have never thought of it as being a negative. I never even knew people noticed it.
In fact I had to google why some people find it wrong to start a sentence with "so".
Here's the link.
http://www.npr.org/2015/09/03/432732859/so-whats-the-big-deal-with-starting-a-sentence-with-so
After reading though carefully, I still don't understand what's wrong with saying it.
Yeah, it's letting the listener know there's going to be some backstory. Honestly? I'm all about the backstory. Without backstory, you're just going to ask me 5 or 6 questions, and after the 2nd one I'm going to have to say "Look, let me just tell you what's going on."
As per the article, I don't use it to sound important, quite the opposite. It feels like I'm giving an opener to the other person to disagree, correct or expand on what I said.
I sure don't use it as a weasel word to avoid giving a straight answer. I'm gong to give you a complete answer so you don't have to waste your time, or bug me with questions.
If someone in a store asks me where the ketchup is, I'll say "I think it's on aisle 3" If someone asks me how I manage to make my scrambled eggs so fluffy, I might start with "So, there's a couple of tricks to it...."
I use it like "Well", or "Oh"