Managed irritation

please note before proceeding.
the only proof to any of the below, is that they have not yet been effectively challenged, and they seem to fit the picture smoothly,

additionally, this is only able to address the people I have been, since I have only been myself, this cannot possibly serve you in any way other than a mere outline, a frame of thought, to be filled in with your personalized creativity and customized truth.
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If you were raised by a fish, maybe this article is meant to be skipped,

But if you had human parents, friends, and educators involved in your development,

Chances are, that there is an area inside your identity, which is way more concerned, with getting approved by the above humans, then getting approved by your own drive to successfully exist.

We might have been mentally conditioned, to destroy ourselves en route to conform, to what others view as our success,
either sincerely, by failing to respect human diversity, how helpful things to human a, might destroy human b, simply because we experience our experiences so differently,

Or even on purpose with intent to market and dress up what is a personal benefit to them, as something directly beneficial to us exclusively.

Just like in the business world, so many advertisements that claim to be occupied and concerned with your well being only, are actually promoting products and services that are a complete waste and even harmful at times,

They will tell you about this money saving and gaining tool, that actually does one thing only, consume our money without giving anything in return.

Likewise, parents and company, will promote and push for certain mind programming, habit establishing, and behaviors, initially designed to serve them some benefit, but introduced to the child, as something essential to the childs long term successful survival etc.

This is not to claim that parents and humans are that wicked,

It's just that we act so spontaneously and so lightening quick, while being so biased and not being aware, about the later,

So much of our real motives and reasons, reside in the subconscious where we cannot intervene,

That this is an inevitable aspect in Human behavior.

Should have some of the above, taken place in your mental development and conditioning?

In a truthful place, much of that programming will be identified as the devil, sucking life out of you destroying you, while identifying itself to you, as yourself with all the self-serving intentions included in the kit, with the most sincerity ever recorded on earth.

But in the real world, one will consistently sabotage himself, and be manipulated by outside enemy interested, all served under a label of genuine self-care.

That is going to be the case, as long as one allows effective attachment between his concious awareness of himself, with the complicated subconscious programming described above, as one united being.

Therefore, we obviously need to detach,
And here is where supreme frustrating irritation comes in handy,

If I would to suggest, that you manufacture that irritation, I probably would belong to the family of harm marketed as benefit, described above.

But luckily, we don't need to create new frustrations, life is mass producing them for us anyway.

We simply need to manage better the ones we already own.

In a place, where one used to spend tremendous energy to flush the sadness out, desperately flipping through his book of tricks, trying to find the one that will uplift his mood and elevate him from this rotting pit.

Maybe focus on fishing out a little rage and revenge onto the devils secret agenda behind all that superficial love and care.

We are not talking revenge against humans as this is almost always counter-productive, as well as outright unjust.

We want to avenge our spilled blood by annihilating the wicked so called self (devil), inside us, regardless of how it came to be.

It's OK to paint the devil in a human picture (even a specific harming individual), as long as you remember that it's for practical purposes only to amp up the rage and provide it a clear target for better expression.

There is a sweetness in effective imaginative revenge, where if that is triggered (in this particular project),
that is incredibly huge, in achieving separation from the devil, and striping him off his stolen identity as yourself.

But en route to that little bag of gold, there are inevitable oceans of frustration and irritation.

The decisive factor might boil down to,
How effective one keeps focusing on the little bag of gold.

You are paying a lot to get a little, at least in qty.

That cannot fluster you, or you better withdraw from all of the above.

Just by keeping in mind and holding on, that despite the attention it naturally attracts,
the pain, suffering, irritation, and frustration, are only an inevitable investment to acquire the little bag of gold, and shifting your focus back on the goal time and time again,

To consistently tell yourself repeatedly,
That all the irritation were expected to be here, and I still signed up for this,

Will probably lessen the habit of constantly returning to observe, watch, and analyze, the pain and suffering.

Allowing you to shift your attention back to the little bag.