How can I tell my teacher how I feel ?

May I ask how old you two are?

Are you both guys or girls? I can't tell from your post.

It sounds like you both have issues from the past that make school officials a little uncomfortable. Maybe you will be able to sit together at lunch if you show that you can both keep the guidelines that were given to you. This privilege might have to be earned.

Ask your teacher what you have to do so you can "earn" the right to sit by this person.

Not sure exactly re this post.

Do you think that the Teacher has a right to tell someone who they can engage with at lunch time?

I would suspect so perhaps if they were 6, if they were in Primary School though?

I'm thinking middle school ages, but don't really know.

Hi I am 19 and he is 15 and it was a different person that I had problems with before

Hi we are both in high school and both males

Since this kind of thing is rather rare, I am going to go out on a limb and ask if you're in treatment for Asperger's disorder. Because from my perspective, if you're incapable of letting go or not bothering someone, that can (at times, not always) be an indication of someone being on the Aspie spectrum.

If you are then this is a talk to be having with the people responsible for your treatment plan. If you aren't, then I would suggest talking to your parents. Most people within your age group aren't required to sit or not sit with anyone - although there may be a concern as you are 4 years older than this other guy. Either way, actually, talk to your parents as this is either, to my mind, a teacher trying to fit things within a treatment plan or you might do well to be evaluated.

Being told who you can sit with at lunch, when you are over the age of 18, is hardly a normal thing to be happening.

I not sure what I got for treatment and my friend sits with his other friends but should I tell the teacher how I feel on this

also the teacher says he is doing to help each other out with personal space but everything is fine

If you're in treatment for Aspie then you need to accept that you might not have a clear idea of what is truly 'fine'.

Again, speak with your parents and your caregiver(s) about this matter. This is a job for them to figure out.

Babe.. Missing each other is just the initial part of falling in love. However i would advise that you should not compromise on personal space.