What Should I Do?

There are all sorts of reasons why someone might not want a relationship. Maybe she just got out of one. Maybe she thinks taking it to the next level will ruin your friendship. Maybe she doesn't go for your gender. Maybe she doesn't like you that way.

Or it's something else.

Without giving her the third degree, probably the main thing is to assure that it's not that there's no chance whatsoever. E. g. if she's a lesbian, and you're a guy (can't tell from your post), then you're most likely SOL and you'll just have to deal. If it's not like that, then for God's sake don't pressure her (we see a lot of guys here in similar situations, and a lot of them can get pretty heavy-handed). Be kind. Be friendly. Listen to what she's saying.

You might end up saying something like this to her, "I know you don't want to date anyone right now, and I respect that. But when you're ready, I hope you'll give me a chance to change your mind."

Don't persist if you say something like that. It's said, it's on the table, and it doesn't need to be reiterated or repeated.

In the meantime, live your life. Don't pine, don't wait, don't put things on hold. Be friendly to all sorts of people – including other women. Date a few if it comes to that. Not to get her jealous, but to live your life. If she wants to become a part of the good time that your life is, then it'll happen. If not, then maybe you'll be with someone who's better suited to you, and you won't feel like you wasted your time for nothing.

This is was really good advice, and not to sound like a know-it-all, my approach was going to be similar to what you suggest. I am in fact a guy and she told me the reasons why she isn't currently looking to be in a relationship. Anyways, thanks for your input jespah, it will go a long way with my situation.

Oh, good. Now be awesome!!

Anyone else have any helpful opinions on my situation? Any different perspective is always useful!

You Either Feel You Can Dominate her Or you Dont. Cant Then Walk Away.

Is this the girl you're now planning to cut contact with?

If so, you don't need to tell her why you're no longer going to be in contact.

What are the REASONS she doesn't want to be in a "relationship."

Maybe she was waiting for you to say, "Wow, I would have never done that."

You left out some vital information, here, buddy.