"Raise their son as female?"?
No. Domestic duties were traditionally performed by woman because they did not have the equal rights to have the choices men did. Thus, it made logical, rational sense in the female's childhood to teach her domestic duties, since her options were so limited.
To say that domestic duties are "female" is total stupidity in out modern day. They are domestic duties performed by people. Parents may raise their son's to learn how to do some of these things, but they are not raising them to be "female". There's nothing feminine about doing domestic duties.