@Romeo Fabulini,
Third party prayers do not work; that's been researched at both Harvard and Yale Universities. Your problem is religious ignorance.
A spouse has the right to refuse prayers. What's your problem? Forced prayer?
You should watch George Carlin on "prayer." It's a gas, and it's factual.
Finally, those who performed research on prayer and concluded that prayer works are those who have the highest interest to have prayer work. In other words, they are people of religion. It's called 'conflict of interest,' and most of those research leaves out many of the necessary information that the research was performed in a scientific manner.
If you don't believe this, do your own 'research on prayer.' Get a group of religious friends - say 25, and pray for a third party patient no one knows with heart disease. Have the patient's doctor record before and after condition of the patient vs average progress or deterioration. Do that for 10 patients, and find your results.