Greyfan wrote:Cav--
Intuition is a great aide for spiritualism, that's for sure.
I remember consulting an Ouija board with an older (teenaged) cousin when I was about 11. She wanted to know how old she would be when she married, and was disappointed when the board said 23- even though that turned out to be fairly accurate. Details -such as her futute husband would flee and join the Merchant Marine after leaving her pregnant at 18, returning to do the "right" thing five years later, only to turn out to be a wife beater who would die from a heart attack 20 years later and many years after they had divorced, a decade before she died of cancer herself -were not volunteered by the all-knowing board.
I guess it might have been useful to press for a few more details.
That's why Ouija boards are scary stuff.
When Mrs. cav and I got married, it wasn't an easy thing for my family. She wasn't Jewish, and oy, she was a Catholic, with half a Muslim family! The pain...
I visited my grandmother in the hospital while she was near death from cancer, and her last dying request to me was "Marry a Jewish girl."
I didn't. I also didn't tell my wife about this. Some months into our marriage, she told me that my grandmother came to her in a dream and said "You're okay, I approve." That was really spooky.