0
   

THE NEAR FATAL DANGER OF HONESTY

 
 
Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 11:31 am

Its good to live and learn:

http://able2know.org/topic/233324-1#post-5569969

The point is that no human is trustworthy; its only a question
of the degree and the character of the temptation
that is necessary to lure someone from keeping his or her word,
but when that happens, as shown by the linked thread,
IT IS TERRIBLE FOLLY, THE MOST EXTREMELY POOR JUDGMENT

to reach out and CONFESS to the defective behavior.

That creates a lose-lose situation
(possibly evoking catastrophic vengeance with PERMANENT results).

Don 't risk more than you are willing to lose.

Ergo: in such circumstances wisdom requires that u KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.

That will protect:
1. the person to whom u woud confess
2. any other parties involved
and
3. will protect YOU.





David
  • Topic Stats
  • Top Replies
  • Link to this Topic
Type: Discussion • Score: 0 • Views: 517 • Replies: 6
No top replies

 
OmSigDAVID
 
  1  
Reply Mon 3 Feb, 2014 04:35 pm

I 'm glad that I don t have that problem.
0 Replies
 
OmSigDAVID
 
  1  
Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 12:19 am

Its good to learn from the mistakes of others.
0 Replies
 
trying2learn
 
  1  
Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 12:46 am
@OmSigDAVID,
What was nearly fatal about that post?
OmSigDAVID
 
  1  
Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 01:26 am
@trying2learn,
trying2learn wrote:
What was nearly fatal about that post?
The gratuitous confession was nearly fatal to this relationship,
and it still might be 1OO% fatal to that relationship; that remains to be determined.

That is not bad enuf. Historically, guys have become enraged
and violent because of such confessions. Thay are too risky.

Women have also not taken the same news very well.
trying2learn
 
  1  
Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 01:45 am
@OmSigDAVID,
So never speak up and tell the truth?
OmSigDAVID
 
  1  
Reply Tue 4 Feb, 2014 02:00 am
@trying2learn,
Don 't go around confessing
if u don t want things blowing up in your face.
0 Replies
 
 

 
  1. Forums
  2. » THE NEAR FATAL DANGER OF HONESTY
Copyright © 2021 MadLab, LLC :: Terms of Service :: Privacy Policy :: Page generated in 0.03 seconds on 04/13/2021 at 12:10:43