quinn1 wrote:I was hoping youd let it go actually and not be so mean spirited.
I am not being meanspirited. If you don't "let it go" are
you being meanspirited?
Quote:Funny thing is, Sugar hasnt come back in here since the first part of this 'topic'.
So, is an insult delivered to my inbox somehow better?
Quote:Im starting to get really irritated over it. (NO, I wasnt all that irritated over it before, just putting in my two cents and hoping it would help the situation)
I'm sorry that you are irritated.
Quote:1. Months ago I sat with Sugar (you know, in the flesh) discussing how she had worked out with you having her be able to list blog there.
Like I said, I had no such arrangement with her.
Quote:2. Sugar checked the TOS before she posted this. She saw that it had been changed far previously to when you removed the link. You had sufficient time to contact her regarding:
a. your reneg on the previous arrangement
b. the change is TOS
c. the possibility of giving her the opportunity to change it herself
Quinn, tell ya what. I won't tell you what you have time for if you do the same for me.
No, I do not have time to walk people through A2K rules. And again, I had no such arrangement with Sugar.
Quote:3. Sugar didnt post anything as you have listed here, you took information from her personal sight and decided that was a good argument for you to use against her.
Correct, when she descided to insult me on her site I referenced said insults because it's part of her rude response.
Quote:It also is, as Ive said previously, more of a diary type site and I hope you realize what happens when you look in someone elses diary now.
So I'm supposed to think he insults are not rude because they are on her blog? Is there another excuse to cover her insults by email?
Quote:4. I wont quote ANY of the email either Craven-lets just say thats me still being nice and frankly keeping personal personal...lets see if we can maybe say its equal
Feel free to quote my emails to her. Tell ya what. I'll quote them myself. They are my emails.
Quote:Sugar,
I removed your signature. I understand that you wished to be notified of this in some way in advance but I can't possibly do that. As it stands I get several hundred emails and over 50 PMs a day (so much that I don't see most of them because the new ones push the old ones out of my inbox). I remove several links every day and I can't possibly be doing the personalized notice thing. In this regard I think you are being unreasonable to expect individual notices.
That being said, there certainly can be a lot more documentation of the rules done. And since I doubt anyone else will find the time to do it it is on my to-do list (though it will be a while before I can get around to this).
But I think you are exhibiting a double-standard. You expect personalized notice for something so insignificant as removing a link in a sig but think nothing of impulsively insulting the job A2K staff does and calling me a jackass and the moderators "whiny gestapo".
I think you are being both unreasonable and rude even though I understand your frustrations. I too am frustrated and have been trying to "retire" from A2K. I don't care for the extra aggravation.
I am writing you because you played the "I donated" card and while it's policy not to respond to this (to prevent the notion that those donations grant special status) I want to address it myself. Please let me know what PayPal email to send it to. I don't want you to have this card to play when you hold such a negative opinion of me and are willing to disparage me at your lesiure.
In short, I want no favors from people who disparage me as a jackass and "whiny gestapo" for a perfuctory task I did. I wish to rectify this and eliminate one source of the drama.
Robert
Her response, which I do not quote herein, was rude Here's my next email:
Quote:Sugar,
I did not take content from your site. I referenced publically posted
content (about me) in a completely legal manner.
Secondly I don't run this site by myself. The decisions involved were voted
on and I have been extracating myself from any involvement in this. I asked
the moderators if we should announce the sig rule or just put it into
place.
They voted for putting it into place with me coding a javascript to prevent
links.
This type of episode is not just frustrating for you and a while ago I
approached the mods with a plan to get me out of this entirely. I want no
more part in this.
I agree with you completely in that a better way to announce rules needs to
be put in place. Adding them to the TOS doesn't seem to work but
announcvements mean that the announcements have to forever be updated.
It's not as trivial as you think it would require much more work than you
can imagine, but I do agree with you in that it could be improved.
And lastly I'm sorry. This is why I don't want to do this anymore. I don't
like pissing people off.
Please let me know what paypal email address to send it to. That is
something I can rectify. And if you are gone, I'm both sorry and will miss
you. Even if I disagree with what you think I should have done.
Robert
Her responses were all quite rude, ingoring what I'd said and choosing instead to simply insult me.
Now I know you are close friends and your friendship is such that you are willing to overlook her wrongs, but being that her insults are directed at me please understand if I feel differently.
Quote:5. Your continued arguements makes me think 'the man doth protest to much' as Sugar is not here to defend herself and I shall not speak for someone else.
Well Quinn, I'm afriad I'll have to decide for myself what is an adequate protest of an insult directed at me. I understand that Sugar is your friend and you are willing to write off her insults as merely just the way she is but do understand that you can't expect me to see things the same way.
Quote:6. All I can hear is you ranting about how busy you were to do anything yet you've spent all this time on this.
Indeed. Because of Sugar's episode I am speding time on this. Of course this is not nearly as much time as I'd spend if I were to have to walk each member through each rule.
For the most part people do not react in such fashion and simply accept the fact that their link was removed.
Quote:7. Dont worry about the $20.00 I'll give you another just to let it go, of which I doubt you can let it go. And in regard to that...of her ranting of her own personal thoughts--that was the sarcastic part.
Quinn, I'd prefer it if you don't start with the money insults as well. The implication that I am greedy is insulting.
Quote:Frankly, Id give her $20.00 as well to come back in here and reply to you for the entertainment value alone.
Please do. I'd like for her to have the integrity to defend her insults and reaction.
While you are at it why not review what great wrong I have supposedly done to her. Why not review the content of my subsequent communications with her.
I did not insult her and her response is simply disproportionate to my having removed her link.