@Yahoojack,
Oh dear god - Navy then, rather than navy seals - the same sentiment still applies.
And 'tell them I'm not in' is the most commonly requested lie in business. I've seen it asked in every job I've ever been in, frequently, by so many people, over 20 years. You've either never worked in an office, closed your ears and gone 'la, la, la, la'...or you've never been employed - one of them.
Do you notice that desipte you quoting christian lines that there is just one person here who :
- claims to hate
- shows numerous examples of intolerance
- doesn't comprehend the level of lies he tells himself and the hypocrisy inherently involved in lying to yourself while claiming to hate liars
- would not lie regardless of the consequences / would not lie to save someone needless hurt
- sees absolutes, unable to imagine a place where lying would be appropriate
Hypocrisy, hate, intolerance aren't christian values. Extremism/absolutism doesn't help.
Your views lead to a lack of empathy, as - if you don't try understanding why people lie, and the care for their fellow human that is often involved in the 'good lies'...then you will never understand. And you show you don't understand by claiming to hate liars.
Lack of empathy is also against christian values. You can be firm while showing empathy, but you can't be condescending and superior while showing empathy. Empathy is necessary to showing love for others.
Do you notice that you have avoided any answer to questions about Lying to yourself?
Despite your condescension, I make it a point of being honest with mysellf, and hunting down self deceptions, uncovering fears (which can lead to self deception), knowing who I am, my likes & dislikes, my strengths and weaknesses...because I made a promise to myself to be as honest with myself as I could be.
The point of raising this is, that I've little doubt you've made a lot of judgements about people that are just plain wrong (there's christian quotes about doing that too)...despite my defense of certain types of lies, I personally find very little need to do so these days, because there are other ways around such (that don't translate well for writing) and from a personal level - because I know myself well enough that very few things discomfort me to any great extent me these days (some still do of course).
You've made a point of hating liars - but if I sat down with you and went through a series of questions with you...I've little doubt that you'd find any number of things you've lied to yourself about (because every person I've ever met has engaged in numerous ongoing self deceptions, and instant ones, and habitual ones). Fears are an interesting point in case...anything that you avoid because of discomfort, fear, embarassment - that you give a different excuse for...is a lie.