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Sat 17 Dec, 2011 11:19 am
What words bug you? ---BBB
'Whatever' wins crown for most annoying conversation stopper
December 16, 2011
Clueless, the movie in which the characters were, like, whatever.
You know, just sayin' “whatever” is, like, the most annoying word or phrase in casual English conversation. Seriously.
At least, that’s the finding in the latest Marist Poll released on Friday. “Whatever,” that ubiquitous part of speech, won the contest for the third straight year.
In the race to the bottom of the linguistic heap, "whatever" drew 38% nationally as the most annoying, beating out “like” with 20%; “you know” with 19%; “seriously” with 7%; and “just sayin' ” with 11%.
Though it is hard to believe, 5% of the respondents said they were unsure which was the most annoying formulation, a recognition, perhaps, of the English language’s abundant number of impediments to the verbal exchange of ideas.
It is hard to beat “whatever” in any contest over annoying because the word is so versatile. It can be used as a pronoun, an adjective and an adverb, making it a triple threat in any conversation.
It is also exceptionally flexible in meaning, running the gamut from indifference (whaatever) to disdain (You think what? Whaaaatever!). There is also the icy whaateeevere, signifying, well, whatever.
"Whatever" beats out the other parts of speech in all geographic, demographic and other subcategories, according to the poll.
The South, at 40%, is most annoyed by the term compared with the rest of the country. Baby boomers, at 43%, dislike it more than Gen X, at 37%. And 40% of women are bugged by "whatever," compared with 35% of men.
I used 'whatever' to respond on a thread probably a year or two back. I was asked by the person to whom it was written why I was being so rude. I did not think of it that way, but I have never used that word since, until now.
@BumbleBeeBoogie,
"You could be right" may not be as annoying, but it's at least as good a conversation stopper.
I find "Actually" annoying.
Mr. Dithers can't take your call, actually he's in a meeting.
I saw something on I think SNL where is was explained you use "actually" when you are really seriously telling the truth.
@chai2,
Okay, but I'm sure you've noticed you only use the word 'sure' when you actually aren't sure at all.
The one that drives me batty here in N.C. is the substitution of whenever for when. As in "whenever I was in the 3rd grade", or "whenever I was at my momma's house last week".
"Get out of here" is a close 2nd to "whatever."
I'm not hearing "whatever" much anymore.
@roger,
I wonder why the British always say "indeed" at the end of their sentences?
BBB
@BumbleBeeBoogie,
Was it good for you, too?
BBB
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:"Get out of here" is a close 2nd to "whatever."
I'm not hearing "whatever" much anymore.
"Get out of here" has seniority of standing,
going back at least to the 1930s or 1940s.
It is a
dismissal of foolishness.
David
@MontereyJack,
re: Jack:
It used to be
"whatever it is" as I remember.
It got shortened. I liked it better the first way.
David
@roger,
Bet I don't.
Are you just joking around? I can't tell.
If you're serious, I really don't know.