@failures art,
On the Palm Springs Sambo's, I remember several things -
One of our parent's had money, the girl whose father wrote there;
me, I made little, at nineteen, after school and weekends, father out of work, but I worked with that girl (which is what we called each other then).
This went on for a few years, so that one of my memories is of that friend tapping her ring on the steering wheel to the Beatles - the Beatles! First time I heard the Beatles.
Somewhere along the line I got icky re Sambo's. I had been clueless to start with as I was ill raised (or well raised) sans a lot of kiddie books or movies, and didn't know it as other than vaguely as a name. Might have been that first boyfriend..