@BumbleBeeBoogie,
Thanks - never heard of them.
I don't want to fight - I just don't want any contact with her. Including carry my dog because of not wanting him to be peed on again. When I mentioned it to her she said, Oh my dog didn't mean it. What? He walked over and raised his leg right over my dog.
She basically does not understand or perhaps care about others. When my husband mentioned how she bangs on floor and continuously "drops things" that it is very loud (her soon to be former husband had once been in our place and agreed how much when you walk with shoes and drop things it echoes) - but yet wants perfect quiet from us.
My husband thought he over heard her mentioning filing something about assaulting. Not sure if it was something else - or what but those are the sorts of things that concern me. Obviously she would need proof for anything to actually happen, but can she claim something and lie?