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I only need 20 male and 20 female responses.
Please only answer if you are between the ages of 18 and 25.

This survey is being conducted by an introductory level sociology course. Please answer each question as honestly as possible. Thank you for your participation! The questions below are based on the following scenario:
You are going on a date with an acquaintance of the opposite sex.
The date is dinner at a nice restaurant. This is your first date with this person.

1. Are you male or female?
Male Female
2. What is your sexual orientation?

Gay Straight Bisexual

3. Who do you think should pick the date up and drive to the restaurant?

Male Female Don’t Know

4. Who do you think should choose the restaurant to eat at?

Male Female Don’t Know

5. Who do you think should pay for the meal?

Male Female Split the Check Don’t Know

6. What level of affection is appropriate?

Handshake Hug Kiss on Cheek Kiss on Mouth (Pop Kiss)

French Kiss (Tongue Kiss) Oral Sex Sex

7. During the date, do you think it is appropriate to display ANY type of affection in public?

Appropriate Inappropriate Don’t Know

8. Is it appropriate to answer casual text messages (not an emergency) during the date?

Appropriate Inappropriate Don’t Know

9. Who should initiate the first phone call/text message/facebook communication after the date?

Male Female Don’t Know

10. How long should the person wait before they call/text/facebook communicate?

Day After Date 2-4 Days After 5-7 Days After

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How many 18 - 25 year olds do you think hang around this site?

Right church, wrong pew.

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@Dosed,

Dosed wrote:

6. What level of affection is appropriate?

Handshake Hug Kiss on Cheek Kiss on Mouth (Pop Kiss) French Kiss (Tongue Kiss) Oral Sex Sex

Wow, you jump right from a french kiss to oral sex?

In the words of John Cleese

What's wrong with a kiss, boy? Hm? Why not start her
off with a nice kiss? You don't have to go leaping straight
for the clitoris like a bull at a gate. Give her a kiss, boy.

Nibbling the ear. Kneading the buttocks, and so
on and so forth. So we have all these possibilities before we
stampede towards the clitoris

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@Dosed,

I can understand the age limitations. You might be looking into a generational difference in these social views. But why would you limit the number of participants? The larger the pool of participants, the more accurate one could mold the conlusion to be.

By the nature of this forum, I really don't think that you'll be overwhelmed by responses if you left this limitation off the survey.

Plus, your premise is tad too skewed.

Quote:

You are going on a date with an acquaintance of the opposite sex.

If a person is gay/lesbian then they can't move on with the other questions given the premise of the survery. If they answer with opposite sex in mind, their answers might wildly throw the survey off track.

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Yeah, why would a gay lesbian be going on a date with a member of the opposite sex?

As friends? Then that wouldn't be a date.

I define date for the purpose of this survey as 2 people getting together with the intent of finding out if they are compatible, and perhaps move forward with the relationship.

Oh hell, I'm going to quote the original post and answer, even if I am an old geezer.

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@Dosed,

Dosed wrote:

You are going on a date with an acquaintance of the opposite sex.
The date is dinner at a nice restaurant. This is your first date with this person.

1. Are you male or female?
Male Female
2. What is your sexual orientation?

Gay Straight (I guess, I've never had the opportunity to try anything else. I think any woman I would find cute enough to have sex with wouldn't be interested in me. Bisexual

3. Who do you think should pick the date up and drive to the restaurant?

Male Female Don’t Know I th ink they should meet at the restaurant, each person getting there on their own
4. Who do you think should choose the restaurant to eat at?

Male Female Don’t Know What is all this "Don't Know" stuff? They should mutally agree where they want to eat.
5. Who do you think should pay for the meal?

Male Female Split the Check Don’t Know

6. What level of affection is appropriate?

Handshake Hug Kiss on Cheek Kiss on Mouth (Pop Kiss)

French Kiss (Tongue Kiss) Oral Sex Sex

7. During the date, do you think it is appropriate to display ANY type of affection in public?

Appropriate Inappropriate Don’t Know On the first date, all that's going to happen is a kiss on the cheek. Make of that what you will.
8. Is it appropriate to answer casual text messages (not an emergency) during the date?

Appropriate Inappropriate!!!! Not if you want to see me again buster. Also, an "emergency text"? WTF is that? I think a true emergency would be very very rare, and if it's going to interupt the date, it better involve blood or a concussuion Don’t Know

9. Who should initiate the first phone call/text message/facebook communication after the date?

Male Female Don’t Know Well, since I'm not in high school any more, I'd have to say whoever had something of substance to say first. Don't contact me unless you have something to say..

10. How long should the person wait before they call/text/facebook communicate?

Day After Date 2-4 Days After 5-7 Days After Again, are we in HS here?

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Dosed, based on taking your survey, I think you need to rewrite it.

Instead of "Don't Know", I feel "Other" would be more appropriate.

Life is generally not a yes/no/don't know deal.

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@Dosed,

1 yes
2 opposite
3 which of us is the date?
4 yer kidding
5 now ino yer kidding
6 go4 it, now i'm not sure your kidding
7 laws preclude some previously identified affection levels in restaurants
8 only if your hands are free
9 the most desperate
10 i'd wait forever for you

who are you doing tonight?
you wrote these questions didnya?

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@Dosed,

1. Are you male or female?
Female
2. What is your sexual orientation?

Bisexual

3. Who do you think should pick the date up and drive to the restaurant?

Don’t Know

4. Who do you think should choose the restaurant to eat at?

Don’t Know

5. Who do you think should pay for the meal?

Split the Check

6. What level of affection is appropriate?

Handshake/Hug/Kiss on Cheek

7. During the date, do you think it is appropriate to display ANY type of affection in public?

Don’t Know

8. Is it appropriate to answer casual text messages (not an emergency) during the date?

Don’t Know

9. Who should initiate the first phone call/text message/facebook communication after the date?

Don’t Know

10. How long should the person wait before they call/text/facebook communicate?

Day After Date to 2-4 Days After

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