Friend's Hospitality

no, politeness is never overkill.

I think thay r called "bread and butter notes".





David

If I were the guest, I would send a hand written thank you note to express gratitude, maybe with flowers or wine depending on the specific circumstances.

If I were the host, I would love to receive a thank you note. I can't imagine this being seen as a wrong thing to do.

If I were the host,
I 'd not expect to receive it.

If I received it, I 'd not know what to DO with it.


(I prefer hotels.)





David