@Lee Nichols,
I think you are saying that she has four receivers in her home, each with a remote, but only the remote in her bedroom eats batteries. If you take the same remote and keep it in another room, does it still eat batteries? Is it a typical IR remote or does it use some other method of connecting to the receiver? If it's an IR remote, then nothing I can think of will make two remotes both run down batteries. We need some more details.