@Paracelsus,
symptomatic of a breakdown in social relations indeed. If you have the energy read
this postand the little back and forth Vaska and myself have from post #7 on wards. The relevant stuff finishes at the bottom of the page; I think we did a pretty good job of highlighting some of the major language issues which would be serious offenders with regard to the destruction of social relations.
I also see the need for for sharing ones knowledge, as part of maintaining meaning within ones actions, I guess for the same reasons it might seem odd to wear make-up and dress up in the house alone without any plans of leaving. I'm sure this isn't a deep seeded motive, but certainly it fits in with your comment- 'ideas, ... is the real currency'; why have currency if you have no one to trade with?
Is there ever learning for the sake of learning, or is all self improvement a sympton of one-upmanship? Perhaps this question reveals a little more, today I certainly feel the pressure of society and the actions of most seem to be well driven by the masses, I often ask my brother why he chooses to drive a ridiculously fast and expensive car? He can only answer, 'because...' I often imply that he didn't buy the car but the general public did, for without them he would not have felt the pressure to compete machine-wise and buy such an over the top motor- this winds him up somewhat
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The glare of the public and their iron fist of judgment probably has a part in this as well, I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable communicating the way I am now with the punters at my local pub, in the primary school I have been volenteering at, and especially not at home. Is it as simple as that?
Dan.