babsatamelia wrote:Oh silly me!!! Here I was, hoping that this was
a "secret society" - not open for all ears & eyes
to come sneaking in, impersonating other members,
posting absurd, nerdy and gross threads - and being
disgruntled, ill mannered, and just generally
out of order! I am still stuck in a peter pan idealistic
never never land; I know, I know, & its off to work I go.
babsatamelia, this is an open forum and is listed on Google. Expect to see people you don't know eventually arriving. And that's a good thing. This isn't a closed club house. We will have new people, and will make new friends. In my five years online, I've found that the vast, vast, vast majority of people are decent and kind.
And I'm here to deal with the troublemakers. If you have any problems in that area, contact support at http://www.able2know.com/contact.php and I will see to it that those problems are resolved. You have my word on that. I am not a lazy person. Able2Know isn't just going to be ignored like some other forums.
Impostering is 100% impossible. I couldn't create a new account with the user name babsatamelia even if I wanted to - and neither can anyone else. That name is reserved because you're using it. This is why you can't change your user name in your account.
As for "absurd, nerdy and gross threads - and being disgruntled, ill mannered, and just generally out of order!": I have no idea what you mean by absurd or nerdy threads. What you find absurd, others may find funny. What you find nerdy, others may find helpful. As for gross threads, they'll be pulled as quickly as possible. Again, contact support at
http://www.able2know.com/contact.php and those problems will be addressed.
As for people being disgruntled, well, I can't change their moods, no more than anyone else can. And there's a difference between, I believe you'll agree, people who are just disgusted with life and people who take it out on one another. Everyone, if they feel put upon, is (do I sound like a broken record yet?) encouraged to contact support at
http://www.able2know.com/contact.php and report such incidents so that they may be addressed.
Ill-mannered is a matter of degree. This isn't a garden party, but it's not a barroom brawl, either. I know some users are more sensitive than others. I attempt to strike a balance but -
I am not a mind-reader and cannot know if you (or anyone else, for that matter) are offended unless you tell me.
Finally, as for "being ... generally out of order", we have a Terms of Service. Have you seen it? A link is at the bottom of virtually every page, including this one. If you're seeing people who are violating the Terms of Service (AKA the Membership Agreement), say it with me: send a note to support at
http://www.able2know.com/contact.php and I will look into it. :-D
PS Bi-Polar - I hope Stephen can keep his benefits. If you have a url wherein a letter can be sent (your Congressman, etc.), why not post it? I'm sure many A2Kers would be interested in sending along their thoughts to the lawmakers who should see them.