@mismi,
Hope is a good thing and humans can always change for the better - if they want to.
I thought it was interesting in both S&S and P&P that the older sisters were portrayed as meek, kind of sweet but insipid people. I could never tell by the way they acted if they cared for Edward (S&S) or Bingley (P&P). I suppose etiquette of the day required women to act like cold fish and not wear their hearts on their sleeves....which was why Austen had Marianne act in such a way with Willoughby.
Just rambling along here........