Somehow; you managed to get it exactly backwards. A person would have to pay an extra $1,250 per year to justify NOT paying the $250,000. My equation proves the Estate Tax is better for the individual, as well as society at large. Short of misunderstanding or misguided selfishness; I don't see how this could be disputed. At least; no one's tried as of yet.
I recommend the Millionaire next door to anyone who wants to better understand the mentalities Chai is talking about with PM and WM. The only thing you got wrong (aside from the obvious over-stipulation of the stereotypical) is that beyond the 1st generation of wealth builders; there is no stereotypical WM beyond a belief in a birthright... that is in part perpetuated by plutocratic entities using government to facilitate the perpetual wealth of the elite. This isn't just a problem of the perceived jealousy of the have nots; it is repugnant to the American ideal.
As things stand today; the rich are getting a free ride from George Bush. Estate Taxes, by their very nature are progressive in terms of percentages paid by the wealthy. This naturally bothers some of the ignorant wealthy... and seemingly a majority of the people it's really screwing.
The opposite effect is observed when you look at sin-taxes or gas taxes. Where the poor man, with a negative net-worth might spend 10% of his income putting gas in his car; the average rich man couldn't put possibly put 1/10th of 1% of his income in his. Hence; Joe Six-pack is paying a 100 times greater percentage of his income at the pump that the rich guy filling up next to him. He gets beat up just as bad on his beer and smokes, too. These regressive taxes is where the balance of Estate Tax cuts will come from. Watch and see.
I see many people reject a flat tax because it isn't progressive... and even solid arguments that demonstrate it as regressive on account of many fixed expenses being the same regardless of relative wealth (like health care), meaning the poor are contributing a much higher percentage of their disposable income than the rich. This is true. But Sin and Gas taxes are worse... much worse.
So what should we do to level the playing field? Well, tax the rich, of course! But, when we overtax the Rich's productivity, there are in turn less jobs for the poor. This isn't just Reaganomics; it is an undeniable economic certainty.
This is what I consider the Income Tax Paradox. Income Tax the rich less; obviously hurts the poor because they have to pay the difference. Income Tax the rich more; and the poor suffer from less employment opportunity and consumption by the rich. Lose, lose.
So, Income Tax isn't the solution. What about an Estate Tax? This is the one Tax that as demonstrated; can be defeated in terms of effect by WM minded financial planning, while simultaneously leveling the unfair burden distribution established and perpetuated by virtually every other tax you can name. Meanwhile, it frees up Joe Six-pack and the rich guy's incomes alike to purchase more products or invest more freely which in turn, benefits both of them and the poor at large alike. Win, win.
You want to know what bugs me most of all? NO ONE seems to want to admit that we owe 10 trillion dollars let alone is showing any interest in paying it.

This is truly disgusting. It seems like the age old prophecy that once the general public realizes it can vote wealth from the public treasury into its own pocket, a democracy will inevitably fail. It looks like the baby boomers and all of us who came after have decided to do just that, take the money and run. Pathetic.