@msolga,
msolga wrote:Why on earth would I "object" to such a discussion?
Earlier, instead of responding to the
content of my arguments dadpad, yourself, and farmerman decided to respond with characterizations about
me that ranged from pedantic to annoying (charges that certainly have their merits but that also put an end to any actual discussion of whaling that was going on).
Dadpad
ranted to me that "YOU are wrong" repeatedly, "You are wrong. Why can't you accept that. Am i getting through to you?" and went on to say to me "Stop forcing your view on to people who don't want it. It would be nice if you could graciously bow out now and let Msolga get on with her dream of changing the world to what she thinks is a better one." and your response was "
Amen dadpad". I didn't think I was "forcing" anything, just being a lone dissenter to passionate folk but when I offered to do so you called it "gracious". Later on when I started my own thread you asked me not to reference someone who had referenced you, in order not to draw you into the discussion and all this gave me the impression that you guys did
not find the discussion welcome sometimes and that you prefer the more dogmatic "your are wrong, go away" approach. In this and other incidents I was very clearly led to believe that pretty much any dissenting opinion that stays for more than a brief visit here was unwelcome. Several others have expressed this sentiment (George being the most recent one) so if dissent is welcome here that is a very well-disguised characteristic of this thread.
Like you said, it's always been an openly one-sided thread and I think to some extent that is what we are referencing, the occasional weariness of discussion and apparent desire to get back to one-sided whaling updates. I don't think there's anything wrong with that to be honest. It's like a thread about how to best elect a person having arguments about whether they are the right person to elect. That's why I think a2k should have groups, so people can make like-minded discussion areas which I think can be valuable.
On some occasions it really did seem that you wanted a like-minded kind of thing, sometimes not. I don't think you object to the discussions occurring so much as become weary and frustrated by it. On other threads I see you just let go and walk off, but here I felt that maybe since it was your thread you felt like you had to flog the horse as the host and that continuing to dissent here was putting undue pressure on you to spend days arguing your case. I just want to argue whaling, I don't want to impose on people and make them feel like they are obligated to do things they don't want. And after every time you discuss whaling with me you tell me how weary you are of the discussion (e.g. saying you've spent 3 days on it, I feel bad if that's not what you wanted to do and you felt compelled somehow by me to do so).