Tai Chi wrote:Hope I didn't sound like a know-it-all but it sure looks like it would be difficult if not impossible to separate Bean and the new kitty. You've posted about Saki's difficulties adjusting to your home -- maybe this is an opportunity for you to re-think where she/he(?) would be happier -- unless, of course, you WANT three cats. (Just one more cat, the slippery slope
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You dont sound like a know it all
You are just saying the things I am finding it difficult to accept.
Saki is a beautiful cat. She is very sweet, very calm and just loves to lay around.
If and when I am able to, she lets me pet her forever and a day.
I truly believe that if Jillian was not around, she would be a loving lap cat.
She just never comes out. Until late at night when Bean is in bed.
I feel bad thinking about finding her a new home. I am perfectly capable of taking care of her.. and she would be well cared for here.
I feel as though I am bucking my responsibility for the " newest and greatest thing' .
But this cat fits in with our lives .
In fact, he is STILL sleeping with jillian almost 9 hours later.
He is curled up around her head this time.. and purring. I opened her door so that he could come out if he wanted too.. but he just looked at me, stretched and rolled up again.
It had crossed our minds to find a small dog in about a year or two that jillian would like playing with. Something as high strung as she is (
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but that would love on her the way this kitty is..
Maybe we dont need that dog..