I'll try this again - with smaller words
My first point is this line of reasoning dismisses considering what actually is spacetime. I would recommend you don't triviliase or ignore this fundamental query, because it goes to the heart of what you are pondering. You are querying its (spacetime's) properties but you aren't analysing in any way showing a deep grasp of how it is classically described.
What is spacetime and what are its properties seems on the surface as simple as asking why does 1 + 1 = 2? Here you go - why does 1 + 1 equal two? You can dodge it and say by the definition - but ask again why? You have to go deep into number theory - fairly advanced number theory and digest all the properties of fields before you can answer what appears to be a simple Noddy question.
It's easy to do the same with spacetime, and spacetime is orders of magnitude harder than number fields and properties of their unities. What is spacetime and what are its properties - you give it direction - without asking why, you acknowledge it can hold mass, without saying all that that means, you comprehend it is positional - without acknowledging the relativity of these dimensions to other sources of mass or energy within the fabric of spacetime.
Spacetime has this rotten, complex nature that as you look at very small parts of it - at atomic scales - things get very complex and incredibly random (alah Heinsenberg). But go below this scale, well complex quickly morphs into acid dream weird - welcome to the world of quantum mechanics.
You are asking questions that delve deep into what is reality at the scale of quantum mechanics - where things can be in two places at once, simultaneously, without crossing any intervening space, things can appear and disappear at random - and do, things can tunnel and get entangled and be in many states at once and do many other mind bendingly weird things.
We don't understand spacetime deeply (so forget trying to give it a flow) - that's too high-level and simply assumes to many properties we don't know it has yet. We are trying to work out its properties - its really, really, really hard. At present our most advanced theoretical models can describe the topology (shape / curvature) of the very edges of the dimensional frameworks we use to describe spacetime - the very edges only. Example - we don't know if spacetime is fractal at all levels of reality - if it is relativity morphs into scale relativity and physics undergoes some amazing shifts at the near quantum level (this is currently under investigation).
Energy and matter are equivalents - and they interact with something we call spacetime and can't fully describe yet. You wish to know specifics of spacetimes interaction with Energy and matter - or postulate another model for reality.
What you are asking is purely, purely speculatively until we can describe what spacetime, energy and matter actually are and describe what their fundamental properties are and why. Being able to do this is at a quantum level is essential - and I would wild guess we are decades away from this level of capability at the best. It's a task not much different from asking Columbus to split the atom - that is the magnitude of the task.