[quote="Mame"[Were you born just after the period when people were taught NOT to be left-handed?
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Funny you should bring that up mame.
In fact, her sister was left handed, and I remember "the story" (more on that in a moment) of how the nuns made her write with her right hand. My mom felt that was so wrong, I guess seeing my aunt, who became right handed in writing, struggle, that she made it a point to let her kids write with whatever hand they wanted....my sister, for instance, is REALLY left handed.
Having done a lot of soul searching about my mother, along with distanced, non-sentimental observation, I can, from an adult standpoint say that my mothers main view of her children was one of apathy.
Well, apathy if we were doing what we were "supposed" to be doing, which was, not rocking the boat.
I think you can tell mame, that I was a bit of a boat rocker.
When boats were rocking, it wasn't upsetting to her so much that we might be headed down the wrong road in life, or needing guidance in the big things. It distressed her that someone/something was making her come out of her stupor of apathy, and, whether it was something small, like knitting, or something big, like questioning ones role in life, it was to be quashed immediately.
Honestly, she didn't possess the tools to be a parent, and shouldn't have been one....but, I guess considering the time, it was expected, and she was all about doing what was expected. Sadly though, she didn't know what to expect from her children, and didn't care to learn.
Wow, that felt good.