@ossobuco,
She did the right thing. That woman knew how to protect herself.
I obviously admire her much. In a way, this body of literature is about the fall of European fascism at the end of WW2 -- but also the end of Europe itself, of its pride and sense of cultural dominance; Malaparte speaks eloquently of the end of a dejected, disgusted and disgusting Europe in comparison with American benevolence and naivity which represents for him, at this point, the future of mankind, like a young man is evidently the future for his old father, who just fell and can't put himself back up...
But at least in the case of Malaparte, Nimerovsky and the author of AWoman in Berlin, this end of Europe is narrated by the finest souls ever produced by Europe, by the most refined and sensitive observers that Europe ever produced, at a time when the culture was at its peak and still trying to surpass itself.
The woman in Berlin strikes me as an exceptional person, including in her intelligence, taste and moral values, likely embelishments aside. The biography of Malaparte is that of an ubermench; "greater than life" does not even start to describe it. Nimerovsky was a literary genius. We don't make such towering figures anymore.
But the description of Europe in its most abject moral and physical ruin by some of the finest European minds ever makes for some great literature.