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Virtual friendships (this is a rather sappy post)

 
 
dadpad
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 02:33 am
I think its important to remember that the picture we build up of people we have not met can be misleading. Almost like a fantasy. The reality could be completely different, or not as good as we imagine.


Its fun and I do think you get a sense of people after a long period of time but you relly only get a sense of the person they want to show you.

Reyn said something like - virtual friends are good, turn em on when you want and off when you want.
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Montana
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 03:12 am
Stray Cat wrote:
Montana, I have to go wring myself out now..... Confused


Sorry about that, SC Embarrassed
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Montana
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 03:13 am
Mame wrote:
Montana wrote:
Stray Cat wrote:
This whole thread has made me juicy with joy. Really, I have to stop reading because various fluids may start secreting from me at any moment.....


That sounds like something Kicky would say Laughing


Yeah, but he would have inserted a "boner" or "weiner" or even "love-bone" in there somehow! Laughing


Laughing So true!
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Montana
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 03:13 am
dadpad wrote:
I think its important to remember that the picture we build up of people we have not met can be misleading. Almost like a fantasy. The reality could be completely different, or not as good as we imagine.


Its fun and I do think you get a sense of people after a long period of time but you relly only get a sense of the person they want to show you.

Reyn said something like - virtual friends are good, turn em on when you want and off when you want.


I'm the same person here as I am in real life. What you see is what you get :-D
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 03:36 am
Montana wrote:
I'm the same person here as I am in real life. What you see is what you get :-D


Ditto. Someone mentioned I have a tourettes-ish way of writing..it carries over, just short of screaming obscenities at people with idiotic behavior.

But, even if you only get to know the person they want to show you, there's nothing you can do for that, but simply, allow that personality to grow on you, and it does.

I think in this place, most people are who they are, what can I say? That might be a little naive on my part, but it's what I think anyway. I've never really shared more than 2 exchanges with kickycan, but I remember when he first started coming here, and I thought he was so obnoxious, and I'm content in thinking he's probably the same way in reality, and I'd probably spend much time around him rolling my eyes, just like I do when I read his posts. *shrug* Doesn't mean I don't like reading his posts, they're just ....eye-rolling causing to me.

I don't let the fact that someone here might be 'posing' deter me from being who I am, and in that, making a friend.

And, I'm not deluded either, I've been here so long, I'd feel odd if at this juncture I didn't feel a closeness with most here. I belong to several other forums and none of which have anyone on them that engender such a feeling from me.
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Tuscany
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 03:57 am
I haven't been here for very long but I love this post, onyxelle.
And I agree with everyone.
I think of you all as part of my online family,
and I hope to get to know you better.
I think you're a wonderful group of people.
*Group Hugs for Everyone* Very Happy
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jespah
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 04:48 am
Sappy bookmark, will be back.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 05:59 am
dadpad wrote:
I think its important to remember that the picture we build up of people we have not met can be misleading. Almost like a fantasy. The reality could be completely different, or not as good as we imagine.


Its fun and I do think you get a sense of people after a long period of time but you relly only get a sense of the person they want to show you.

Reyn said something like - virtual friends are good, turn em on when you want and off when you want.


Actually, none of my virtual friends I've met turned out to be different what I'd thaught they were.
(Though not all looked like their avatars Laughing )
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Roberta
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 06:09 am
I agree with Walter. Haven't been disappointed or greatly surprised by the people I've met.

Walter, Are you suggesting that I'm not all furry and spotted?
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ebrown p
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 06:18 am
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I think its important to remember that the picture we build up of people we have not met can be misleading. Almost like a fantasy. The reality could be completely different, or not as good as we imagine.


Its fun and I do think you get a sense of people after a long period of time but you relly only get a sense of the person they want to show you.


And how is this different then people you meet in real life?

I have a great fondness for many people here.

<<ebrown, in a rare moment of weakness gives into the sappiness>>
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 06:28 am
A2K members have given me a great deal of support and diversion over the years.

A2K is a happy oasis in this Vale of Tears & Woe.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 06:32 am
Montana wrote:
I hear ya, Osso. That's exactly what I get from people. They're like "yeah, ok", with that confused look pasted on their face Laughing

As well they should! Don't let our friendly, sophisticated facades here fool you. I, for example, am actually mean-spirited, dumb, and an utter stranger to humor and irony. You would never recognize me in real life. That's because you just don't get that on the internet, nobody knows you're a dog. But at least the people around you do, so that's a relief.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 07:44 am
I've never liked Thomas.
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 07:51 am
or dys.
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dadpad
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 07:53 am
BTW Kicky is one of the few here I really would like to meet. we'd get on like a house on fire.
Kicky is being loud, obnoxiouse and downright silly at times but has a heart of gold, give you the shirt of his back if you needed it. Even if he couldn't afford it.
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Walter Hinteler
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 07:54 am
Since you mention him, bear: very true!
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farmerman
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 08:05 am
The whole bunch of you make me sick. What if were attacked by another bulletin board brandishing fresh fruit?
Im afraid wed take heavy casualties.
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 08:09 am
farmerman wrote:
The whole bunch of you make me sick. What if were attacked by another bulletin board brandishing fresh fruit?
Im afraid wed take heavy casualties.


I would open a fruit stand on their site and a protective gear stand on this site and I would start an aftermath cleanup and rebuilding infrastructure service for hire on both sites.

I've been paying attention these last few years.
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dadpad
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 08:14 am
farmerman wrote:
The whole bunch of you make me sick. What if were attacked by another bulletin board brandishing fresh fruit?
Im afraid wed take heavy casualties.


Cherries?


I'm staring to get excited.
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onyxelle
 
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Reply Fri 3 Aug, 2007 08:34 am
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:
I would open a fruit stand on their site and a protective gear stand on this site and I would start an aftermath cleanup and rebuilding infrastructure service for hire on both sites.

I've been paying attention these last few years.


ALL OF YOU ALL SLAY ME. SORRY ABOUT THE CAPS, IT'S THE ONLY SORT OF TEXT USUABLE HERE AT WORK.
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