Thu 28 Sep, 2017 05:50 pm - Yes I do want to move forward and yes I agree with what you say. I was married before for 14 years to a pathological liar and it was horrendous. It took a while to learn to trust again. I think... (view)
Thu 28 Sep, 2017 04:43 pm - Yes my therapist said my issue is because I had set the boundary. I had said to my husband " I like you would like something more but because we are so far away I understand until we meet we... (view)
Thu 28 Sep, 2017 02:51 pm - Yes he fully understood it as his reply was don't say that I am 100 % sure it's you I want. It is more the lying and not telling me he was on the dating scene and professing his feelings... (view)
Wed 27 Sep, 2017 03:08 pm - You make a good point. I never thought of it like that. It was a difficult first year and I suppose I kind of felt angry and blamed him for deceiving me so early. It was more the betrayal of... (view)
Wed 27 Sep, 2017 01:01 pm - Yeah I have been thinking that's the answer, something is stopping me that maybe about me and triggers rather than the actual thing itself. Thank you (view)
Wed 27 Sep, 2017 12:49 pm - I know I have punished him enough. But I feel he took away our innocent honeymoon period with this. I didn't want to believe it at the start and played it down. Now details come to my mind at... (view)
Wed 27 Sep, 2017 12:44 pm - Yes, he moved to me and we married in 2015...this happened in 2014. I thought it it's nothing we were not together. In hindsight that was shock denial I don't know I was so so hurt by... (view)
Wed 27 Sep, 2017 12:29 pm - Ok this is a very quick synopsis. I have been married for 2 years just over. My husband and I started talking through fb, we went to same school but now I had moved to a different country. Over... (view)