Wed 21 Nov, 2012 11:39 am - I'm 50, she's 49. It's my second marriage, her fourth (my first wife divorced me, my current wife divorced her previous husbands - lots of baggage, all around). All our kids (from... (view)
Wed 21 Nov, 2012 10:56 am - Now you're getting there.
Yes, she feels I don't love her as much as she loves me. And then I went and gave her proof.
The counselors want her to move forward. When she does,... (view)
Wed 21 Nov, 2012 10:08 am - I'm sorry; I didn't make myself clear. The affair happened 21 months ago; as a result we started counseling. I have been totally faithful since then, without a hint of doubt - but I had... (view)
Wed 21 Nov, 2012 06:56 am - Oh, we've been seeing counselors (we're on our second) for 21 months now (I revealed the sexual contact details 5 months ago).
The affair started with lunches (supposedly benign, but... (view)
Tue 20 Nov, 2012 06:22 pm - It doesn't matter in that it was totally wrong, and I am totally to blame. But it matters to her, because she still thinks I'm lying, and I can't prove I'm not, and all her... (view)
Tue 20 Nov, 2012 06:16 pm - I've been owning up for five months, but she won't let this point go. Believe me, I don't want to dwell on it any longer.
I finally told her not because she could have found out,... (view)
Tue 20 Nov, 2012 06:11 pm - Believe me, I'm trying, but she keeps coming back to it, and says she won't continue unless I admit it went further. Of course, she thinks I did go to a motel, too.
I'll just... (view)
Tue 20 Nov, 2012 03:05 pm - I had a brief, three-week affair, before my wife found out. Unfortunately, I tried to hide the details from her for a long time, but eventually I came clean. Here's the problem: the physical... (view)
