Hi, I'm visiting to India after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses. My sister in law said that if you stay at my parents house, then they are going to hit me. My mother in law treating me bad way. She has 3 kids, 2 sisters and 1 son. She always listen to her daughters more. They made my life miserable.My husband is very supportive but he is younger in family and nobody listens to him. His mother said that you are not my son and never come to meet us, we have daughters and they will take care of us. and she made will on both daughter's name. I'm bit worried as I have to go to mumbai and stay in MIL's house as I have to finish all our financial stuff. My husband can't go as he is not getting leave and can't spend that much time otherwise his job is risky. My mother stay far away in maharstra small villeage and I have to finish our urgent work. If not my MIL and SIL will use all our money. I'm confused and we are strong but don't know how to handle the situation. My MIL and SIL never talk to my kids and says that they are useless and behave very abusively. We are not calling them but now I have a question, how should I deal with it as I have to finish my work keeping my mind strong.My FIL is nice but he doesn't have power and can't say anything in front of his wife. My MIL did will and kept SIL as nomminnee. She is not willing to give any money to her son's kids. and told my husband not to keep any relation with them. Can own mother behave like that with her own son? She is doing this because her brothers didn't take care of her parents that's why she keep on saying that my daughters are going to take care of them and not her son. We are giving money every month even though we are not getting single money from them. My husband calls them and then my SIL says don't call here as she stays with them. My SIl are married and they are 52 years old and having 1 daughter only. They both stay near to my MIL. Pl. help me. I'm worried to visit India now and I have to do my work. My SIL can hit me.
Tue 15 Apr, 2014 09:38 am - Thank you for the reply.yes but I have to stay at their place only since file and everything is at their place. I need help of my father in law as he knows everything. Our money and everything is... (view)
Tue 15 Apr, 2014 08:52 am - Hi, I'm visiting to India after 7 years. My side family is happy but my husband's side family is making excuses not me to visit India . My sister in law said that if you stay at my... (view)
