Thu 8 Jan, 2015 10:20 am - No thats a touchie subject as my wife doesnt want my family seeing the kid. Its not there bad people or anything, my father died when i was young my mother rared us on her own. She doesnt drink or... (view)
Thu 8 Jan, 2015 06:34 am - No all babysitting is arranged through my wife.
I am not in US so its probably different in Europe.
Your advice is very much appreciated. (view)
Wed 7 Jan, 2015 10:18 am - Thanks Germlat.. youve been really helfull directing me to ask questions of myself and others.
The relationship with my family is connected, my family do not turn up at functions, lame excuses,... (view)
Wed 7 Jan, 2015 05:21 am - There was no praticular reason I have fallen out with my family, its bacsicly lack of interest from my mother etc in my life which gaulls my wife. I can live with it as its my mothers loss. My wife... (view)
Wed 7 Jan, 2015 01:18 am - My family never done a whole lot apart from being laid back and calling to see us once in a while. Whereas her family are full on its a daily chore to call to us. My family were blacklisted then.... (view)
Tue 6 Jan, 2015 01:12 pm - That's true. I often wonder what life would be like after all of this. Its not going to be a bed of roses either when I've to pay maintaince etc. But would the cost alone keep you in an... (view)
Tue 6 Jan, 2015 12:33 pm - Yeah at the start but with time we drifted apart. She hates me and has said it more than once. We are in a terrible situation. She said she doesn't love me either. (view)
Tue 6 Jan, 2015 11:56 am - I am cautious, cause I'm unsure of who the 3rd party is. I don't know her that long to be sure, although all signs are she is, I suppose falling for me.
I'm also a bit nervous about... (view)
Tue 6 Jan, 2015 10:32 am - I have been married 7 year. For the past 2 year the commitment & love has not been great in my marriage it has gone sour. This is from both sides. My wife is very controlling and has succeeded... (view)