Wed 9 Dec, 2020 12:48 pm - Regarding therapy, I hope I will be matched with the right person. I'll probably need therapy for all my life. I hope your therapy was helpful?
This is the very first time I've been... (view)
Wed 9 Dec, 2020 03:53 am - "You keep mentioning a "they" but you know it's really just you."
What you say here rings true. I'm probably trying to prove to only myself that what happened was... (view)
Tue 8 Dec, 2020 03:53 pm - Punching bags sounds OK. I have stress balls, but they don't do the job. I'll see what else I can get my hands on.
I do get scared to let go, but it's probably the main goal. I... (view)
Tue 8 Dec, 2020 03:16 pm - I'm not sure how I'd feel if I knew my abuser was doing time in prison... I bet it would please me very much, and I could move on easier. The worst thing is if you blame those you care... (view)
Tue 8 Dec, 2020 10:17 am - Thanks for your response, yes it's probably quite common, and maybe even understandable.
LOL I worried moderators would remove this thread if I didn't censor! (view)
Tue 8 Dec, 2020 05:54 am - I appreciate that other people are further on in their healing journey than I am. But for me I'm plagued all day with violent fantasies of revenge towards my abuser. I'm almost obsessed... (view)
