Wed 4 Sep, 2013 01:01 am - Thankyou all for your words. I really am unsure what has triggered the feelings now however, even if I could pin point what the trigger was, my big issue now is what can I now do to deal with the... (view)
Tue 3 Sep, 2013 04:24 pm - Thank you for your words. I have always been able to deal with most things in life that have been thrown at me but this really has hit me and I have no explanation or trigger for what has caused it... (view)
Tue 3 Sep, 2013 04:02 pm - We never really talked about it then. I have tried to talk now and I feel she is basicallg of tbe view it was 20 years ago I am still here, deal with it. I am in a weird state of mind in that I... (view)
Tue 3 Sep, 2013 03:44 pm - My wife had an affair 20 years ago. We had a 3 yr old and a 1 yr old. I did not want to allow it to break us up then as I thought it would be devastating for all especially the children. I am 43... (view)
