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Feel blue, say "I do" as weddings boost mood: study

 
 
Reyn
 
Reply Sun 13 Aug, 2006 02:54 pm
Hopefully, someone wouldn't just get married to help themselves to solve their depression problems. Seems rather daft.

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Feel blue, say "I do" as weddings boost mood: study

NEW YORK (Reuters) - Lonely? Feeling low? Try taking a walk -- down the aisle. Getting married enhances mental health, especially if you're depressed, according to a new U.S. study.

The benefits of marriage for the depressed are particularly dramatic, a finding that surprised the professor-student team behind the study.

"We actually found the opposite of what we expected," said Adrianne Frech, a PhD sociology student at Ohio State University who conducted the study with Kristi Williams, an assistant professor of sociology.

They expected to find that one spouse's depression weighed too much on the marriage, but "just mattering to someone else can help alleviate symptoms of depression," Frech said.

Frech will present their findings at the American Sociological Association's annual meeting in Montreal on Sunday.

The researchers used a 3,066 person sample that measured symptoms of depression -- such as an inability to sleep, or persistent sadness -- in the same people both before and after their first marriage.

They found that depressed people experienced a much more extreme decrease in the incidence of those symptoms.

"Depressed people may be just especially in need of the intimacy, the emotional closeness and the social support that marriage can provide ... if you start out happy, you don't have as far to go," Williams said.

On the other hand, if you're not depressed, marriage could have the opposite effect, Frech said.

People who were happy before getting married and end up in a marriage plagued by distance or conflict -- qualities associated with a depressed spouse -- might be better off single.

"It seems right to say that people who are not depressed are at risk, that if they marry a depressed person this could be a bad deal for them," Frech said.
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NickFun
 
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Reply Mon 14 Aug, 2006 08:49 am
I had an uncle who married 7 times. He was always happy at the weddings. But he was a sour puss between weddings. He finally died at the ripe old age of 47.
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material girl
 
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Reply Mon 14 Aug, 2006 09:02 am
NickFun wrote:
I had an uncle who married 7 times. He was always happy at the weddings. But he was a sour puss between weddings. He finally died at the ripe old age of 47.


7 Wives, Im not surprised!!(no offence)
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Mon 14 Aug, 2006 09:03 am
Reyn- That is one of the dopiest ideas that I have ever heard. What these people are saying is that "tying the knot" with someone else would alleviate some of the depressive symptoms. That is total baloney. A person who is depressed needs to get their depression under control before they even begin to consider embarking on a permanent relationship.

I wonder who funded this study.
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Reyn
 
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Reply Mon 14 Aug, 2006 09:06 am
Phoenix, I couldn't agree more. It's within each of us to do something about it. Whether to seek medical help /medication, or whatever. Something like marrying to cure oneself is ridiculous.



Nick, How long between marriages?
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NickFun
 
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Reply Mon 14 Aug, 2006 10:06 am
The longest marraige he had was about 10 years. But most marraiges only lasted a couple of years. Of course, he also had numerous girlfriends duing his marraiges so there was always one waiting in the wings...
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Reyn
 
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Reply Mon 14 Aug, 2006 12:07 pm
Rather bloody sad....
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