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Sat 8 Jul, 2006 02:38 pm
I think it took a lot of guts for this fellow to speak out the way he did, and in a country such as India.
It's interesting how this issue crosses all kinds of boundaries.
Gay prince out of closet, loses inheritance
MUMBAI (Reuters) - An Indian prince has been disowned by his family after he publicly announced he was gay in a country where homosexuality is outlawed by a 145-year-old law.
Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil, who belongs to one of the country's richest royal families that ruled the former Rajpipla principality in the western state of Gujarat, has been disowned for "activities unacceptable to the society," one disinheritance notice placed by his parents in a newspaper said.
Last month, his parents issued notices in a Gujarati language daily withdrawing his right to the family property.
"Henceforth, no one must refer to my name as mother of Manvendra," one notice signed by his mother said. "If any individual or organization dares to do so, it will invite contempt proceedings."
But Gohil, 40, who announced he was gay this year, says he has found happiness among Gujarat's gay community and is not interested in his inheritance.
"I could not have lived a lie forever," he told Reuters on Friday.
"I will not stake my claim to the property. I have found a family in the (gay) community and am happy working for the community," said Gohil, who runs an NGO working on HIV/AIDS among homosexuals.
"As an activist, I thought it right to come out of the closet first. Otherwise, it would have been living a lie."
Homosexuality is banned in India and punishable by up to 10 years in jail, but gay activists are trying to lift the veil of secrecy over the community in a country where public hugging or kissing even among heterosexuals invites angry stares, lewd comments and even beatings.
Gay support groups say the anti-homosexuality law -- framed by British colonial rulers in 1861 -- must be scrapped for an effective fight against HIV/AIDS because many homosexuals refuse to come out in the open fearing harassment by authorities.
UNAIDS says there are an estimated 5.7 million Indians living with HIV, many of them homosexuals.
India abolished princely kingdoms after independence from Britain in 1947, but many royal families continue to lead lavish lives in sprawling palaces.

I was thinking the same thing, Littlek, but Gautam has never been in the closet.
Arella Mae wrote:How can a family disown their own flesh and blood???
Sadly, I've heard of this on a number of occasions, and the families came from different religious backgrounds.
Letty wrote:
I was thinking the same thing, Littlek, but Gautam has never been in the closet.
you took the words right out of my mouth.. !
this link gives some insight into
...INDIA AND HOMOSEXUALITY...
apparently , homosexuality became o no-no under the british rule - seems strange to me .
there are many examples of homosexuality in ancient india (which should not be surprising ; it's not something that just came out of nowhere in modern times).
hbg
I have a male friend who has been living in India for years. He's had a lot affairs with married Indian men. Most marriages are arranged and the men are resigned to it, but then they have a bit of poony on the side with other men. More power to this prince, it will be a long haul for him, but at least he's bringing some light onto the situation.