Chai Tea wrote:Serious question
If you shop often and get so many bargains, don't you get to the point where you have enough "stuff" and you don't have to shop anymore?
I don't actually shop that often -- maybe once a month for a sweep at one store or another, and then I don't always buy anything.
Sozlet likes shopping for clothes for herself (for a short time), but gets aggressively bored shopping for anything else, so I don't usually shop with her. It's something I'll do occasionally when she's at school or when she's doing something with E.G.
As for having enough "stuff", it so varies. For example, when I started my job in L.A. I had no professional clothes, just college-kid clothes, and I had to build up a professional wardrobe. So I shopped often back then, as I had a tight budget but really needed this stuff (I was very young, but had to project enough authority to get my program off the ground). I went to a lot of thrift stores and resale stores and flea markets, assembled a really very nice wardrobe for a pittance. Lots of time, very little money.
Then, once I had a good solid professional wardrobe I quit and had a baby, and all of these silk suits and high heels became utterly impractical. (I kept the nicer ones though so I don't have to do another go-round when I do re-enter the work force.) My college-kid stuff was long gone and/or didn't fit anymore, so I had to build up a new wardrobe of stay-at-home mom stuff. That also took a while.
Then a couple of years ago I decided that since the kid was out of the spit-up stage and didn't need to be carried everywhere I could get back into higher heels and more skirts and nicer fabrics, feel more like myself again.
Right now I'm in a pretty good place (until I move down a couple of sizes, anyway, we'll see), and don't buy much for myself. I recently bought a couple of tank tops for cheap at Eddie Bauer outlet (colors I wanted and didn't have), and an outfit at H&M to update things a bit (olive skirt with zippers and cool details, white with olive voile fitted short-sleeved button-down cotton shirt). That's about it in the past several months, clothes-wise. Usually I set out to buy things to coordinate with an item that I found for cheap and loved but don't have anything to wear it with, or to keep things up to date.
The bargain-hunting doesn't always work. I bought a pair of sandals about five years ago that were a bargain, but had terrible soles, just foam bricks, not comfortable on long walks. So starting about 3 years ago I looked for replacement sandals -- I wanted something really comfortable and nice enough to wear with skirts. Searched and searched and searched, no go. Finally paid a lot more than I hoped to at an online shoe store a couple of months ago -- something like 30% off, but still $70 -- and they're perfect, really happy with them. Again, though, that's just my second pair of sandals in 5 years, and I only own those two.
Quote:Another serious question, since I'm not a shopper, I really don't understand a few things, and have often wondered about some stuff.
The "looking" thing....I've been with people I know in a store, and they will pick up something, or stop and just "look" at it, I mean "LOOK" turning it over, holding it up, putting it down, picking it up, looking at one spot, looking, looking, looking.....
ok - What the heck are you "looking at" for so long? It's a glass, it's a shirt, it's a handle holder. Especially if you're not going to buy it, what are you looking at it for so long?
I'm not talking about the "I want to know what all the features are" or "I'm wondering if this will fit in with what I have already".....it's just this, LOOKING.
I look at things carefully to consider a lot of aspects -- construction, fabric, durability, fit, color, style, and as you say whether the last two fit with other items I have. As Osso says, especially at resale/ thrift stores there may be a not-obvious deal-breaker; a stain in the armpit, a tear in the back, waist in a weird place, things like that.
Also, while I'm looking I'm often doing calculations, like "that costs ___, I don't want to spend more than ___ today, I think I want to get that other thing, do I want this more than the other thing?, I can't buy both." Or, "does that pink have too much peach in it to go with the skirt I have in mind?" Or, if buying FOR someone, "what color is their dining room again?" Etc.[/quote]
Quote:What makes that fun?
I don't really think of the looking AT an object instead of looking FOR it as being most of the fun, although it can be I guess in terms of "Is this actually as perfect as it seems... omigosh it actually seems to be that perfect... what a find!"
I also like just looking at how things are made when they're really clever. I've definitely closely examined a garment and how it was constructed and then gone home and made a version myself. :-)