I like working with acrylics too, but the fast drying does make it hard to get them blended just right sometimes. Your local art store should carry drying retardants. They come in different finishes (matte, glossy, etc.) you just mix them in with the paint on your pallette.
Also, Material girl, it is oil paints that can take years to dry. My grandmother has an oil painting she bought years ago and it is still smudgeable-as all the younger grandkids have proven.