vfr
I for one do not find your writing your writing cold, tough or judgemental.
And what's wrong with being tough anyway?
I haven't read more than a few of your posts, but apparently you are in a position where you're battling debt and other addictions? Yes?
Having found a new way to live, you may come across as having the "answer to it all", but I personally don't read you that way.
I personally try to live as simple a life as possible, am always happiest that way.
For me, that is deciding MY OWN priorities and not letting others decide what my priorities should be.
On the other hand, that means I can't decide for anyone else what THEIR priorities should be.
Perhaps that is what some are feeling you are doing.....however with only 33 posts so far, you can't have made too many enemies yet
Anyway, I know what you are talking about.
Good luck with your plan, and stick with it.