@Mame,
You Sure?
"I think he was agreeing with you that one often doesn't notice things where they live."
I didn't think of that one as an option, although this is a very common thing to say. This would also give a positive interpretation to the dialog.
So you would exclude the grammar issue, meaning even if my sentence was not the best English that's not what my friend wanted to point out?
Just for completeness I'm a he, my friend is a she, we were colleagues in her home town six years ago. Then I moved back home and since then we haven't met or talked. Now she made a post that she visited my home town and we shared these two sentences. As I mentioned in my post she is native English and I live in a non English speaking country.