some ideas for a first text to a crush ?

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SO there is this boy I have a crush on.

I don't know if he really know my existance because we saw each other several times but maybe he didn't saw me like I did.

I tought I can just live my life and forget about him but it's seems I have to to something to get rid of him because it's annoying how is he always on my mind even if I don't really know him (I stalked him a little but that's it)

I'm someone who never been on a relationship, I went on several dates but nothing serious and I'm really shy especially when I think about the idea of send a requet on insta and text him.

I don't have any confience in me physically, I'm not that pretty and I'm fat but it's seems that his type is the petite slim girls. I know that for the rest I'm a good person with a good personality (I mean I hope I am, I want to be modest), I care for people, I have a lot of love to give and I'm pretty smart.

To get back to the subject, can you people help me to find a good first text to send other than ''Hi how are you ?'' who I find so boring ?

Something that can catch his attention and makes him want to reply and continue the conversation ?

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@cyhmie,

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I'm someone who never been on a relationship, I went on several dates but nothing serious and I'm really shy especially when I think about the idea of send a requet on insta and text him.

If you're reaching him on Instagram, why don't you start by talking about his content? That's literally why people post on social media. To share whatever content they create.

The more a prolific poster this person is, the more likely you can make a meaningful and quicker connection to him. That's if you can truly/honestly provide feedback to what he posts there (and not white lie your way into his social circle).

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@tsarstepan,

thank you to have replied, personnaly I post conctent that is aesthetic and cute (I think) but most people just post beautiful pictures of themselves, and so it's his case. So there just 3 photos of him normal and nothing to say about it. That's why I'm a little blocked

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@cyhmie,

I think you need to focus on other things and people in your life. Obsessing about someone you've never met is unhealthy. Find some hobbies (knitting, watercolour, cooking), join a meet-up group (people your age doing activities you enjoy), take a class (language, sewing, art, woodworking), join an activity (go bowling, hiking, skating, walking with your friends)... seriously, obsessing is unhealthy. So, no, I'm not going to help you write a text to someone you have never met and don't know the first thing about. I wish you luck in overcoming this obsession.

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@Mame,

thank you for the reply
But funny how you think I have nothing to do in my life.
I'm a medical student, I spend most of my time studying, and when I have free time I spend time with the ones I love.

Don't worry I'm not just obsessed by a boy, I have more important things to do in my life, it's just a crush and I have to try something to get over it that's it.

So, thank you for not helping me for the question, I just needed a good aproach to text and have some fun.

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@cyhmie,

Knowing nothing about you and this "crush"? Just think about why you're having feelings for this rando/stranger? Is this the same person you wrote about a week ago in this thread?

Do you like his sense of style? Comment on his clothing. Still? Don't get too creepy in your comments.

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