@mpim2244,
How has it been in trouble?
It just sounds like your looking at money deposits.
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IDK your age or goal in marriage lets play ball.
Marriage is a type of business arrangement.
Children?
And children is also a business arrangement.
Your married nine years and no children, what is the point?
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Okay.....Marriage has nothing to do with the account balance at all. If that is what you agree upon then that is what you agree upon.
Yes... in an Mainland Asia ( including Japan ), a husband would come home with the money to give the wife. The wife would then give the husband back some for his own personal usage. She is/was the accountant of the home.
However in other cases the husband makes enough money he literally could have another girl or possibly another wife/family entirely. Then you have concubine relationships where the wife is a ditzy low-brow girl and she would be more or less a girl for sex rather then his equal. Usually there would be a matron ( mid-wife ) who would look after the house usually serving as an alternative to his wife. In most households they have somebody that would run the household above the help. This practice is also in the western shores as well.
The only reason why a spouse would joint there account ( at least ) is when they would not know his/her rights. They do it out of tradition.
I have multiple accounts and I am not going to pool my money into one account so my spouse could keep tabs on where I spend my money. That is insanity. I also have pre-paid credit-cards, and other accounts.
I truly hate going to the bank or cash and check place and seeing women judge
me based on "What is in my wallet" or whatever business I have.
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