Is my boyfriend being too selfish?

Dating someone steadily over a year and we are 50 miles apart. He encouraged me to lease an apartment with him starting in July. I normally wouldn’t have done this so fast but I feel confident in our relationship and it is now a two bedroom apartment rather than in the one bedroom he lived in before.

Also since I was cutting back at work starting in July it made sense that I would live in the apartment half of the week and then come home the other half of the week to work part time. I really enjoy his area and thought it would give us a chance to see each and develop a relationship further.

His idea was that I would sell my house sooner rather than later and essentially move into the apartment but my idea was that I would do it gradually over a period of months.

Weeks ago I started not feeling well and I pushed myself to go there because I knew he expected me to come in but the second day I felt even more sick so I came home.

I’ve noticed that he doesn’t text me good night like he used over the last few weeks. He does call sometimes which he has done in the past. He expected me to come this weekend but I’m still not feeling well and the doctors are still running tests. I had mentioned to him that I miss him and he was welcome to come to my home. But he was said that he just got a flu shot and that he was it was going to be rainy so I said I’d be better off just resting

Well he called me last night to see how I was doing he mentioned that maybe I can come back to the apartment later this week and spend an extra long weekend to “catch up“ (there’s a holiday starting Wednesday.

My concern is that I am the one sacrificing and giving up my home eventually at my hometown even though I’m not opposed to living in his area which is generally very nice and nicer than where I live. It seems like he expects me to keep on running there And doesn’t expect to reciprocate which is fine but under the circumstances since I wasn’t feeling well it would’ve been nice if he had shown up and try to lift my spirits since whatever I have is apparently not contagious.

Am I making mistake pursuing this relationship or should I bail out now just as an FYI he’s not the kind of guy to spoil me nor do I need somebody to spoil me he but he is usually a very caring person and has a good heart but he doesn’t necessarily show it