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Lilyf23
 
Reply Tue 19 Jul, 2022 02:46 pm
Hi so I tried this in another website and got destroyed. I’m 21 and my boyfriend at first loved the idea of me being a onlyfans girl and I even give him a cut because he helps me with a lot of it. I had the onlyfans before him. Nowadays when I post a thirst trap with my link to get more people to sign up he often gets very moody with me and he’s starting to hate it. I’m not sure what to do I do it so I can pay my college off and all my other bills, but I work 60 hours a week and it dosent cut it. I’m really stressed out.
 
jespah
 
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Reply Tue 19 Jul, 2022 03:31 pm
@Lilyf23,
So, my understanding is this is images, and I guess sex talk?

Soooo like a phone sex operator, in a way?

If you don't meet these guys (or gals), then you're almost like an actress in a porno. A 100% legal job.

And, you need to pay off your college and other debt. Paying off your debts is important not only because it gets creditors off your back, but also because it helps you increase your credit score.

A decent credit score means you can get car loans, a mortgage, and credit cards with better interest rates than people who have bad credit. Bad credit is extremely expensive.

Therefore, unless he wants to step up and start paying your bills for you ("Here, honey, tackle my tuition bill."), or is in a position to get you a better job, then he's got to accept that this is, for you right now, your best way to make good money.

I do honestly hope you're not meeting people or giving away any significant info on your name and location to any of your fans. That's for safety's sake, of course.

Your bills and your Onlyfans profession (for lack of a better term) both predate him, yes? Then he kinda doesn't have a leg to stand on in terms of letting it affect him emotionally and potentially trying to get you to stop.

Also, if you feel his emotional reaction could put you in any physical danger at any time, then I hope you get out and keep yourself safe.
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 05:27 am
A lot of men like the cachet of being in a relationship with a, lingerie model, porn star or something similar.

It gives bragging rights down the pub.

The reality is very different from the fantasy, instead of being with the object ov somany fantasies, they see their partner prostrating themself in front of some pretty dodgy characters.

The resultant feelings of jealously and insecurity aren't likely to diminish, if anything they'll get even stronger.
engineer
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 06:08 am
@Lilyf23,
I think you need to cut him out of your work/professional life. It's really none of his business.
Lilyf23
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 08:43 am
@engineer,
Ya I agree with a lot of these answers. But I do work 60 hours a week as well. I would like someone to talk to because it isn’t that clear cut
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PoliteMight
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 09:52 am
@izzythepush,
A person doing lingerie has nothing to do with pornography at all. That is a childish method of thinking. In fact it is legal in most places for women to walk around in a bra, and even allow their underwear to be exposed, which is obvious for the dress-codes. Beyond that unless you live in religious nut-jobber type cult then your going to end up being that way.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 09:54 am
@PoliteMight,
I'm not remotely interested in anything you have to say.

You are semi literate and quite ignorant.
PoliteMight
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 10:00 am
@izzythepush,
You seriously have no idea about what you are talking about via the subject.

I understand your a slave and live in a box
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izzythepush
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 10:08 am
@izzythepush,
Let me try to put it in terms you'll understand.

Yore incapabble ov torking basick inglish.
Joeblow
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 10:18 am
@Lilyf23,
Um, what are those numbers at the end of this post?
PoliteMight
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 10:22 am
@izzythepush,
I am not an Engrish major and have a real life.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2022 02:47 pm
@Joeblow,
Joeblow wrote:

Um, what are those numbers at the end of this post?


I have a sneaking hunch you really don't want to hear the answer to that. It might be stomach turning.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Thu 21 Jul, 2022 11:54 am
@glitterbag,
I would imagine it's probably her onlyfans number.

She's in business after all.
Mame
 
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Reply Thu 21 Jul, 2022 01:29 pm
@izzythepush,
I didn't understand a word of her post, lol. I had to look it up.
izzythepush
 
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Reply Thu 21 Jul, 2022 01:43 pm
@Mame,
There was a BBC documentary the other day.

There isn't a lot of safeguarding, some of the models wdre under pressure to do things they were uncomforrable with, and Onlyfans isn't as diligent as it could be in verifying the ages of some of its models.

That was the bad side, there were others who did quite well out of it, but anything involving sex and money is open to exploitation.
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