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Fri 25 Mar, 2022 12:30 pm
Few weeks ago my wife told me she was raped when she was 18.
It was 10 years ago and I didn’t know her back then.
This is when she lost her virginity too, It was her first time…
And even now she’s still having nightmares about what happened to her.
When she was 18 She went to one of the Greek Islands for some summer work and she met some new friends.
And one of them came to her room one night and brutally raped her.
She said HE was totally drunk.
She never did anything about this and never told anyone.
She didn’t go to the police, she was too scared and embarrassed and she thought that no one would believe her anyway and also very few people speaks English in there too.
I don’t know why she decided to tell me.
Now, I’m totally raging about this!
And I’m not going to let him get away with this even after so many years.
So I’m looking for best ideas on how to get vengeance on this guy.
I was gonna start with sending him letters and emails with just “RAPIST” message, similar phone calls in the middle of the night, big ‘RAPIST’ sign (with his name) sprayed on walls of his house and all over his car so that everyone would see.
But this is not enough so please help me with some ideas.
I want him to start being afraid every day and night as she was.
I want him to wake up in the middle of the night with fear.
I want him to get what he deserves!
@vuco2022,
You are not going to make your wife feel better about this by being a raging idiot. I think you need to focus on her needs right now.
@engineer,
I'm focusing on her and she's well looked after.
She says she's feeling really happy and safe in our relationship.
But how can I just let it go and let this guy get away with this???
Obviously I'm not gonna get her involved in this.
But he should get what he deserves
@vuco2022,
You are not the victim, she is. What does she want? You say "obviously I'm not gonna get her involved in this" but she's the one with the stake, not you. I doubt she will be happy and willing to confide in you in the future if she finds out that you have gone on a vengeance campaign after she trusted you.
@vuco2022,
How safe will she be if you're in jail?
I get the feeling you're more sorry for yourself than her.
@vuco2022,
No matter how tempting it is to believe that anger will bring this thing to a satisfactory conclusion, nothing could be further from the truth. You can't change the past. In the past, that guy was something that happened to her. You don't want your nonproductive, emotional reaction to be another thing that happens to her, do you. Don't be the next bad thing that happens to her. That's not how healing takes place. Show her the difference between you and bad things that happen to her.
@vuco2022,
vuco2022 wrote:also very few people speaks English in there too.
That is not true, English is widely spoken throughout the Greek Islands.
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