@Linkat,
Putting that out there because I just got an email from one of those classmates.com or something like that - I did click anything but they showed me a list of classmates that I graduated with. I went to a very large high school, but a couple of names did stand out to me.
One was a girl I was friends with in junior high. I remember vividly having lunch with her along with some others, and loved the way she talked. She was always very expressive and used large vocabulary - she had a great smile and a quiet confidence.
So I googled her - at first shock I see an obituary then realize it was for someone much older - but I see she had a relative with the same name who now lives in CA. I search more - she is the same age as me. Flash she is this marathon/open water type swimmer! And I do vaguely remember her swimming in high school.
And then I find a commercial where she is featured (it is a medical commercial about getting back to life again) and shows her jumping in and swimming. I saw her smile - that is definitely her even after 40 years that was her smile.
That felt really good and made me very happy.