@Barry2021,
Yes you provided the definition behind but not the meaning and what it "feels" like...the ironic thing is you get upset about someone calling you honey when the meaning is (of course not the food item) see below,
INFORMAL
an excellent example of something.
"it's one honey of an adaptation"
darling; sweetheart (usually as a form of address).
"hi, honey!"
...but yet you do the opposite when you use a term that is actually considered rude.
Since you are so good with google - did you try searching to see if using that phrase is considered rude? You come up with pretty much everyone shaking their heads yes!