Fri morning at 10:38 was her last message to me. I sent her a message, "when can we meet just to chat?" It's now Mon afternoon and she's not replied yet. I'm moving on from this one. If I'm giving off a vibe that I'm trying to meet too soon then I'm sorry. Say so. "Hey, let's chat some more and get to know each other before we move on to the next level." But we've been chatting a few weeks and every time I ask when she's available to just meet she goes silent for a few days. At this point I don't think it was as much about the money for her as it is she's just not comfortable hooking up with a guy she met on a site for hook ups.