What's gotten under his skin today? (Part 2)

Yesterday my husband and I had our next counseling session and I made mention to bring this issue up with her. I wrote down some notes that I have been saving for a few weeks. For those who don't remember, every morning before work my husband is sitting at his desk in the bedroom and I usually walk in and play with him before he starts his work day. This particular morning when I walked into the room he had his headphones in and was angry with whomever he was talking to. I later find out that he was angry with FedEx over a package that had not been delivered and they couldn't tell him where it was. When I walked in he turned to me in a nasty way and said, "not right now, I'm on a phone call!" Stunned at how he was speaking to me I stood there and asked him who he was talking to and again he sternly said, "why does it matter, this is my phone call!" When I said my side of the story she turned to my husband and asked how he could have approached the situation better. My husband literally snapped at the counselor by saying "why should I have to approach the situation better? She walked in the room to be playful and I told her now was not the time but she stood there and started asking more questions!" The counselor looked at him and told him that later in the day he should have walked up to me and apologized for snapping at me which he hasn't done yet. Granted, the counselor did bring up the fact that sometimes I do ask too many questions when I feel ignored but from the mouth of a trained professional she made it seem that my husband was the one at fault in this. Husbands and wives are supposed to have open communication but in this case he threw everything out the window we had been discussing in counseling simply because he was angry. After our session we were discussing it at home and my husband said that in no way should a person expect to think that when their spouse walks into the room they bring a breath of fresh air in and they immediately calm down any situation. He then told me that the next time I'm on the phone with my oldest son and we are arguing he's going to come talk to me about something unrelated and see how I like it. Since last night he has been giving me the silent treatment. Thank you all for your earlier comments but a trained professional even sided with me. My husband was wrong and should apologize.