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Fri 6 Aug, 2021 03:00 pm
I broke up with my ex (him) about a month ago, it was not bad or traumatic, there were no major disagreements. We were friends for years before we started dating this year. We were very connected as friends, partners, and emotionally.
There is another woman in his life now, not sure how strong their relationship is, but his parents introduce them so they can get married. I knew about the other women before the break-up, that is why I broke up with him to give him a chance. His parents wanted this girl not him. So I thought I'll give him some time alone, and then check in to see how he feels.
I would like to write a letter to him to express how I felt also to see if we have a chance in getting back together( without actually spelling it out). I need some thoughts about what to include in the letter, also should I say I wish him luck with someone else? or should I say hopefully both of us find better partners?
I appreciate tips/ advice
@peace lily ,
Don't send him a letter.
You said yourself that you're giving him a chance.
Sending him a letter and hinting around that you want to get back together is the opposite of giving him a chance.
Either own up to wanting him back and go all out by actually seeing him and expressing your feelings, or let it go and butt out.
Being in the middle is not a good place.
@jespah,
Exactly. Very well said, as usual. You'd think you were a writer or something. (BTW, I read Mythic).
@peace lily ,
You really DO need to spell- it- out if you want this man back.
This sounds like an arranged marriage in the making between this girl and him. He may not be able to or have the energy to stop it.
Speak up about how you feel! He will tell you what his plans are, for sure.
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