1. Calling a woman "trashy looking" because you don't approve of where she works is classless. You should at least retract this statement.
2. I have no problem admitting that I enjoy strip clubs from time to time. They are an experience that many men enjoy. It is a consensual activity that both parties benefit from. There is nothing wrong with that.
3. I believe that most men enjoy strip clubs. They provide a pleasure that reaches some primal part of the male brain. There may be some men who honestly don't enjoy strip clubs (I believe that most men do, but that is just an opinion). There are also men who would enjoy a strip club but would never admit it due to social pressure or shame.
4. There are different kinds of strip clubs. Some are quite classy and clean. They are a high end bar with expensive drinks and naked women. Some are quite grungy. There used to be a strip club near Boston that we went to in college that was fun because it was so low class... that was part of the appeal. They closed it a few years back due to drug activity. I was actually a bit sad to hear it closed even though I hadn't been there for years.
5. The variety of women you see at strip clubs is quite remarkable. There is generally a variety of body shapes and sizes and races (although age is not well represented). There is something equal about this that you don't see in advertising or movies or any other place where women's bodies are featured.
I have never seen a woman at a strip club that I would call "trashy looking".